Bickel Blog: Merry Christmas and the Year in Review

We did not send a letter with our Christmas card this year, but instead provided our blog address. We have not been the best at keeping this up to date, but you can see in the past posts that we have had a great year. The kids are all doing well in school and their activities. I will simply provide a few bullet point highlights of a great year:

We were blessed this past November to celebrate our 15 year wedding anniversary...pretty incredible how time flies! 15 years, 3 kids, and 1 on the way from China!
To celebrate our 15 years, we returned to San Francisco for the first time since our honeymoon. Scott had a conference and Nanette tagged along but it was fun nonetheless. While there, we were able to connect with two of Scott's cousins.
Scott was promoted to Associate Professor with tenure (a big milestone)
Nanette has been very busy as a taxi driver--taking the kids to all of their activities. Bryce played a lot of soccer, Elise played softball and had girl scouts, and Benjamin played baseball and started kindergarten.
We added a puppy to the family, an 11 pound Shih Tzu named Shelby.

As I mentioned, we are in the process of our second international adoption. This time we will be adopting a little girl from China. We have often received the question why we choose to adopt and even more specifically, why we choose to adopt internationally "when there are children here who need a home too". The short answer is that we didn't choose to adopt but rather adoption chose us. As Christ followers, God commands us to care for orphans and widows (James 1:27). We do not believe that everyone is called to adopt, but we do believe that God wants each of His followers to support and take care of orphans in some form. A few statistics about orphans: first, it is estimated that there are over 143 million in the world! Some groups estimate the number could be as high as 200 million, but while the number may not be exact, the fact is there are a lot of children that are living in situations that are not optimal. If these precious children are not adopted, 10 to 15 percent commit suicide, 25 percent become homeless, 60 percent become prostitutes, and some statistics say that up to 70 percent become hardened criminals. Every child DESERVES parents and every child NEEDS parents. We feel like we have been led to make disciples of all nations through international adoption and that is the simple reason why we are going this route.

Our first adoption was funded solely through the Lord’s provision of enough work for Nanette to provide the necessary resources. We were able to fund the first adoption without debt, however it took another year or so to replenish our cash reserves with the help of the adoption tax credit, which to our knowledge has been significantly altered for 2013. The downturn of the economy and the recent changes to the health care system has resulted in Nanette’s work becoming less steady and highly volatile. Therefore, we will be soliciting donations from family and friends to assist with the expenses associated with bringing home our little girl from China. We also anticipate that Nanette will stop her part-time work when we bring our little girl home, in order to focus on the attachment/bonding that is critical during the first year home. This will significantly reduce our monthly income and make it difficult to replenish dipping into our emergency fund.

If you would like to help, there are two primary ways:
1. Prayer—please pray God would tenderly care for our little girl in China until we are able to bring her home and that God would prepare all of our hearts to be together.
2. Financial support—Please consider making a tax-deductible donation to help us pay the remaining expenses to bring our little girl home.

Our church (www.brookhills.org) and Lifesong (www.lifesongfororphans.org) have graciously given a matching grant of $4,000 to help pay some of the fees. If you would like to help, you can send your tax-deductible gift to Lifesong, a trusted organization administering the funds on our behalf and will pay adoption expenses out of funds received. There are no administrative fees charged and 100% will go towards qualified adoption expenses.

Please make checks payable to: Lifesong. In the memo section of the check, please write “preference Bickel #3150 adoption” to ensure the funds are credited to our account.

Mail checks to: Lifesong for Orphans

Att: Bickel/#3150

PO Box 40

Gridley, IL 61744

We deeply appreciate all the support that our family and friends have demonstrated towards our family. It is exciting to see how God provides for us in this adventure to bring home our little girl! Hope that all of your families are well and enjoy the Christmas season celebrating Christ's birth.

“Father of the fatherless...God settles the solitary in a home...”—Psalms 68:5,6

PHOTOS FROM 2012